There are things that people will say to you....you have to choose not to believe.
You have to choose....are you going to believe the negative things, or are you going to believe what God says about you.
Sometimes the worst voices are in our own heads, but we live terrified that someone will actually corroborate what we believe about ourselves and we will be in despair, thinking, "it's true, then."
Sometimes it's a daily battle, but it is usually strongest when you are embarking on a new venture...for me, anytime I do a social outing or sponsor a social activity...
